Before the item I want to put some situations:
1 - the relative of a friend just died and you say: "I'm sorry"
but do not really feel that no is your family, then you could say "I know how you feel" Buuut, could not say that phrase if you have never lost a loved one in death is, so depending on the situation things must be said.
2 to 1 friend tells you how stressful is your job and you say, "If you know ...." but you've never worked in your life!! so obviously you can not say I know or understand what
Now, why this?? that ..... Here comes the theme:
This was a debate in a forum
a lolita I think you can say "Lolita heart" as long as Lolita view (and I mean always , daily lolita dress, no) and also has a kind of feeling concerning the subculture and have a means of expression, in this case would be the clothes.
Then we have those girls who like to wear costumes because they are princesses, the prints are cute, and now, not because they have a greater sense, you might say.
Now I do not think you could call a Lolita-hearted person, just because they "think like us" and not wear any clothing in her life, why? I think it's set foot on earth, clothes is foremost in this group and began lolita style, there is already more than just clothing, it is a separate issue, everyone here is because he likes and feels soooo good using tutus, mary jane shoes, bonnethat, umbrellas, etc. If most of us have certain thoughts and way of living the lolita is something that makes it special, but a girl lolita no use for anything I do not think you could call Lolita at heart.
My comment:
Returning to the examples above, you can not say 100% I know it feels to be lolita ... . NEVER in your life when you have clothing, believe it or not, lolita dress makes us feel special, you do not feel up that dress and I make it clear, I do not mean 100% brand clothing to feel special by wearing lolita, can be hand made, off brand and merely casual lolita.
And leave some comments from other lolitas:
But nobody said every day, well at least I T_T! I do not dress like that every day, much less xD! Go wrong if I go to school dressed all loli xD ... But I can not consider a full lolita someone who does not have any clothes on, because the chance is very easy buy / carry, or else, handmade. If you have no clothes is because they want u_u.
course to the job or some things can not go well, more if you feel like you're not going, but I do not come any girl who never in his life to tell me lolita dress is Lolita's heart.
I'm not saying every day, or once a month, say when you want. And what I say, that casual dress offbrand not worth me the excuse of no money or whatever, I doubt that going into balls all day girls "lolitas heart" because they have no clothes to wear.
I'm not saying every day, or once a month, say when you want. And what I say, that casual dress offbrand not worth me the excuse of no money or whatever, I doubt that going into balls all day girls "lolitas heart" because they have no clothes to wear.
I agree that the main thing to be lolita lolita dress should be, or at least try. The Lolita is primarily a fashion that involves a specific aesthetic. If you do not take that aesthetic or you plan to do so, it would be odd to say that you lolita.
never saw anyone say it's "Lolita's heart" without wearing this aesthetic, but I wonder whether all the cases you mention just want to be lolita but dare not, preferring to imagine that they are to give step. In the final analysis, society can be very annoying trying to sink to anyone showing a minimum of individualism. But in that case, I think you hide from what you wish for society to pay attention to is the opposite of what a Lolita is doing;;;
lolita dress is not a bed of roses, and for me to be lolita involves having a very strong spirit. If there is a mentality after Lolita, I think that would be so powerful individualism principal. Or classical music, no books, no tea, those things are not going to do nothing less than Lolita, in my opinion.
never saw anyone say it's "Lolita's heart" without wearing this aesthetic, but I wonder whether all the cases you mention just want to be lolita but dare not, preferring to imagine that they are to give step. In the final analysis, society can be very annoying trying to sink to anyone showing a minimum of individualism. But in that case, I think you hide from what you wish for society to pay attention to is the opposite of what a Lolita is doing;;;
lolita dress is not a bed of roses, and for me to be lolita involves having a very strong spirit. If there is a mentality after Lolita, I think that would be so powerful individualism principal. Or classical music, no books, no tea, those things are not going to do nothing less than Lolita, in my opinion.
I agree with Minyavasiel, there lolitas who dress just for fashion and others who dress and say they also feel a special affection for this fashion, but you can not "feel" it and do not dress in life, is completely contradictory because that feeling just takes you to love at first sight seem lolita. Not dressing every day, but whenever you want (you can or not is another question.) Yes, you can dress and look like a Lolita fashion and will remain lolita, but can not be Lolita if you never post or you'll get a dress (whether or not branded, that's a different debate.)
is that the same, one thing is not dressing lolita for certain reasons and some because they do not want. That is where I see the difference between a heart lolita and someone who simply admires lolita. Someone who admires the lolita and not dress like that do you really admire? You may admire their philosophy or their behavior allegedly (the forms there or not that is a personal matter.) But Lolita is not only composed of clothing (because then it would not be a "movement", I think most lolitas feel something special for these clothes and this world) but also ways of thinking or behavior. I know that is another debate. But for me what makes the difference is to want to dress or not.
I think one thing is "feeling" Lolita one, which is something belonging to the private life of each, and another to say "I'm Lolita "to 4 winds when you go from jeans ...
do not think anyone is more or less dress lolita by lolita 7 days a week or once a month to dress, but you feel more lolita TU, if you're not wearing the outfit, you can not say "go to Lolita." You can love a lot of lolita clothing, their icons, certain common characteristics you see in most lolis you know, etc., but that does not Lolita again but only for YOU. To the world, is the dressing lolita certain attire, if you walk down the street and you come across any user of this forum loli no clothes, you will not say "Oh, a Lolita!" Lolita more than seen on many occasions and has style clothing in your closet. Then they are to sit and drink coffee and talk about how much they love the Lolita and what it means for you is another thing.
What I mean is that there would, for me, two conceptions of Lolita: an objective and subjective. The first is simply clothes lolita a fashion. And the second is something that depends on each one, is how every girl is the lolita fashion, taking its elements to incorporate your own personality and style, and certainly identify other tastes, feelings, dreams and ways of seeing the world in those clothes. But as we are all different, nobody will have the same conception lolita subjective than the others. What unites each and every one of the lolita is, after all, the clothes . Then, some may be grouped in communities and share similar views or not, but no shared stuff will make us more or less lolitas.
do not know if my point is well understood, but back now to the "heart lolitas" (whether or not they qualified as lolita clothing), each is free to feel all the lolita you want, but I will not noted as a "Lolita" while not seen as one. And that is because love for the aesthetics lolitil is one facet of our personality, but we are not simply or exclusively lolitas, we love style as well as we can love others, we have a very special affection for the clothing that goes beyond, in many cases that we like its design and colors, but do not limit ourselves to that. And for that reason, I'm not going to stand before the world plan "Hi, Lolita", but "Hi, Xio and I love the lolita" or, in case of walking carrying a loli coord " Hi, Xio and come from Lolita. "
And if consider myself a lolita right now that I'm in my pajamas, I am concerned only to me. What I bring myself to consider myself as such is not any kind rule to define a general level lolita.
do not think anyone is more or less dress lolita by lolita 7 days a week or once a month to dress, but you feel more lolita TU, if you're not wearing the outfit, you can not say "go to Lolita." You can love a lot of lolita clothing, their icons, certain common characteristics you see in most lolis you know, etc., but that does not Lolita again but only for YOU. To the world, is the dressing lolita certain attire, if you walk down the street and you come across any user of this forum loli no clothes, you will not say "Oh, a Lolita!" Lolita more than seen on many occasions and has style clothing in your closet. Then they are to sit and drink coffee and talk about how much they love the Lolita and what it means for you is another thing.
What I mean is that there would, for me, two conceptions of Lolita: an objective and subjective. The first is simply clothes lolita a fashion. And the second is something that depends on each one, is how every girl is the lolita fashion, taking its elements to incorporate your own personality and style, and certainly identify other tastes, feelings, dreams and ways of seeing the world in those clothes. But as we are all different, nobody will have the same conception lolita subjective than the others. What unites each and every one of the lolita is, after all, the clothes . Then, some may be grouped in communities and share similar views or not, but no shared stuff will make us more or less lolitas.
do not know if my point is well understood, but back now to the "heart lolitas" (whether or not they qualified as lolita clothing), each is free to feel all the lolita you want, but I will not noted as a "Lolita" while not seen as one. And that is because love for the aesthetics lolitil is one facet of our personality, but we are not simply or exclusively lolitas, we love style as well as we can love others, we have a very special affection for the clothing that goes beyond, in many cases that we like its design and colors, but do not limit ourselves to that. And for that reason, I'm not going to stand before the world plan "Hi, Lolita", but "Hi, Xio and I love the lolita" or, in case of walking carrying a loli coord " Hi, Xio and come from Lolita. "
And if consider myself a lolita right now that I'm in my pajamas, I am concerned only to me. What I bring myself to consider myself as such is not any kind rule to define a general level lolita.
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