Since I've been a fan of girl clothes "pompous" I never had first communion, and had sooo much look forward to a dress like those girls who made their first communion, but replacing, my mom used to buy clothes a little less cute accessories ampones but ..... but hey, they grow up my mom would not let me wear those pretty dresses that it was a "Miss" and had to dress as such, and now my 21 years return to wear those beautiful clothes, the thing is now to that way of dress known within a sub-culture and for many it would be a fashion ...... lolita.
And like any clothing identifying a group of people with certain "standards" then follow a fashion, do not let us be who we are, so I will write something I said when entering high school and now I get to think about how I like to wear:
"" What you wear speaks of the true self and what one thinks of himself. "Yes, your dress happens to others a message about you. Clothing can tell if one is conscientious, stable and if you have high standards of morality. Or you can prove that one is rebellious and nonconformist. You can even serve as identification.
The clothes we wear creates deep impression on the people we see and greatly influences how these people treat us.
Many young people dress a certain way to please their "friends." But how would you consider someone who was always under the orders of another person and submit to their whims?
Among young people, "the emphasis on mold can be so intense that the group members seem almost prisoners of the rules of this.
Is it wise that you meekly let they will set rules you must follow, even if they are contrary to your own common sense or the values \u200b\u200band wishes of your parents? "
So then I started thinking: Why do I dress lolita? Is to impress someone? ?...... really shows who I am and well, I am not fixed to the "rules" lolitas, why would someone pretend I'm not, and yes, I dress lolita, but I get carried away by these "rules" that impose a lot of girls, and they tell you that if you do not are not lolita ...... and that is the truth, I know many girls who are the most beautiful ( in terms of personality) are educated, do not say bad words, have good manners, are friendly with each other .... etc, and I say them for not wearing dresses are lolitas ampones ..? no!! that even though they are not using those dresses! which is what differentiates us from others, but then I started thinking, clothing, whether it is a distinctive but ......
is it bad to be fashionable? Not necessarily. Should one be a slave to fashion?
Do not you really stripped of your individuality and hide your true self that you become a toy designer clothes? Why should control you propaganda, slogans and name of a designer?
and then you say I dress lolita to be different ...., but still the same in a group ...... if! we want to be different from others within a social group ...... with lolitas .... and where is our individuality?, well, the way we think and act.
who can fashion a view to impress their peers. But the clothes do not win the affection of the people do not get real friends. This is achieved by decorating the interior man, working to improve the person we are inside. He who possesses inner beauty will always be attractive to others, though not wearing the latest fashion and branded clothing.
You
yet mastered your own thinking. Adhere to high standards of dress. Avoid fads of fashion and clothing that emphasizes, the sexual. follows the conservative path: not be the first, nor necessarily the last, to follow fashion.
Make sure your dress convey the right message and not display certain image created by advertising or invented by their peers, but your true self!
So girls, lolita dress but do not try to kill or be envious of designer clothing, or required to live under the "rules" lolitas, if you arrange the lolita in our lives and not our style. Balanced
All girls and not push for "standards" imposed by other girls.
Because like it or not, Japan is mere fashion.
In the West girls and give another meaning.
just do not care how you see, we are always ourselves .......
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